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Feeling Bad About Break Up With Boyfriend

I can’t believe I broke up with my then ex-boyfriend! I was going through a pretty tough time at work, and I’d come home stressed out and frazzled, and expect him to make me feel better. I didn’t take time out to think about his feelings, which is what ultimately doomed our relationship. He just said that he realized I didn’t have time for him, and he didn’t want to be around me unless I did- he broke up with me! That really got me thinking, and I felt terrible about how I treated him. I talked to some friends about how to get your ex boyfriend back, and they all told me the same thing- it was my fault, so I had to be the one to apologize. So I called him up and did just that. Fortunately, he was willing to give me another chance. I made reservations at the place where we had our first date, picked him up, and briefly explained that I was totally out of line, and I was really sorry, and I wanted another chance. Then I asked him what I could do to be a better girlfriend, and I really listened, and I did it. I’m not perfect, but I have made some much-needed changes that let him know how much I appreciate him, and remind me what an awesome guy he is!